New York City's iconic former Mayor Ed Koch died early this morning from congestive heart failure. Many things came to mind as I thought about the ebullient Jewish politician, who described himself as a "liberal with sanity." But one anecdote sticks out, and even though I haven't read the account since I was a high school senior. That story, recalled from Koch's memory, is the tale of the pro-life activist who sent the pro-choice politician flowers.
Koch discussed his abortion position in a fascinating co-written book on faith and public life with John Cardinal O'Connor. As a man who likes a good title, this one works for me: "His Eminence and Hizzoner: A Candid Exchange." In the book, Koch described his commitment to legal abortion, using all the standard arguments. He commented on the "shrill" tactics of some pro-lifers in marches and demonstrations.
But he took a very different tone when he described one prominent right-to-life activist: a nurse named Jean Head.
What impressed him most of all whenever the nurse came to persuade him, back when he was a United States Congressman, to support efforts to protect the unborn, she brought him roses.
Koch said he was amazed by the way Head would listen to his position and then calmly lay out her arguments for why he should change his mind, and his vote. Koch said he told her that the roses mystified him because he knew that if he ever changed his position on abortion, the abortion-rights lobby would be "crazed with anger." They wouldn't bring him roses, he said, but instead might send him cactuses.
Koch never, so far as I know, switched his position on abortion. But I can't help but see in this pro-life activist's example something noble and Christlike. There are always those who capitulate and call this "civility." And there are always those who see listening to one's opponents as itself a capitulation.
This woman, though, didn't back down in her efforts to persuade. And that's just the point. The roses weren't a sign of weakness but of mission. She didn't just want to make a point but to change a mind and a heart.
Source: Moore to the Point
Russell D. Moore is Dean of the School of Theology and Senior Vice President for Academic Administration at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, where he also serves as Professor of Christian Theology and Ethics.