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And her words, whispered to my soul as the story ended, pierced my heart.
"You come from a family that fights hard for their sons."
My grandmother, known as "Cack" or "Kitty Mother" to her nine grandchildren, died when I was 16. And I would give almost anything to have even an hour to ask her how she managed to raise three good men alone.
I was blessed to be surrounded by good men as a young girl. Men who loved their families hard, served others faithfully, and stood for something greater than themselves. Men who sacrificed so their families could have the best, and taught their children to work hard and protect what they believed in.
My dad, grandfather, and uncles all called out the beauty within me as they poured truth and love into my heart. Because of their influence, I chose to marry a good man who respects me and believes in my dreams, and I know that much of my confidence in life comes from being loved well by these men.
But not every child has that type of love...
Be a Good Man
Dads, do you know how much influence you have over your children? I know this is a site usually reserved for mothers of boys, but I want to talk to your hearts today. Father's Day is right around the corner, and I want to take this opportunity to call you out into the role God made for you as husbands, fathers, men.
From me to you dads, here are 10 things you can do to fight hard for your sons:
1. Pray for your sons, and let them see you doing it. Those boys need to know their dad is a man of prayer who believes in and needs guidance from his Heavenly Father. Need help knowing how to pray for them? Try praying the prayers in Warrior Prayers: Praying the Word for Boys in the Areas They Need it Most with their mom. It doesn't have to be eloquent to get God's attention.
2. Read your Bible...in front of them. Let them see you go to the Word of God for the answers of life. Teach them what it says and help them apply it to their lives. As the dad, you are the one they will identify with most, so take every opportunity to prove to them that godly men are men worth following.
3. Love and respect their mom. Don't let anything get in the way of your love for the woman who helped you bring those boys into the world. Teach them what REAL love is as they watch you interact with their mom. Even if you're divorced, you can still show them the meaning of love as you treat their mom with respect and show forgiveness and grace.
4. Lead your family well. Make a decision that your family's needs will come before yours. Be willing to sacrifice to give them what they need (not everything they want...totally different subject). Show them what it means to serve by the way you serve them.
Brooke McGlothlin is a a writer, word-prayer, photo-taker, and boy-raiser who knows that if God doesn't show up, nothing happens. She's the mom of two young boys who leave her desperate for God's grace, and is married to the man she's had a crush on since the third grade. She's the Editor and Co-founder of the MOB Society (FOR moms of boys, BY moms of boys), author of Warrior Prayers: Praying the Word for Boys in the Areas They Need it Most, Hope for the Weary Mom: Where God Meets You in Your Mess, and creator of the 21 Days of Prayer for Sons.You can find her writing at her personal blog, BrookeMcGlothlin.com.