Larry Tomczak's 10 Tips on Living Successfully

15-ways-live-successfully-e1344617904701.jpg
As a Beatle, Paul McCartney wrote and sang "When I'm 64." It appeared on what many believe is one of the greatest and most creative albums of all time, Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band. Today Sir Paul is 71 years of age. Don't wince, but rather identify with one of the closing lines from his song: "You'll be older too!"

As I reach this song title's age within two weeks, I thank God for granting me 41 years of fruitful ministry and 37 years of fulfilling marriage. I encourage you to join me in claiming these verses:

  • "The Lord blessed the latter years of Job's life more than the former part"
  • (Job 42:12, NIV).
  • "The end of a matter is better than its beginning" (Eccl. 7:8).
  • "The path of the righteous is like the morning sun, shining ever brighter till the full light of day" (Prov. 4:18).

Lessons learned?

Let me pass along my top 10 but preface them with the overarching commitment that undergirds them all: Follow faithfully the Bible--the Manufacturer's Handbook. This is easy to affirm but essential to adhere to if one is to honor God and enjoy success with lasting fruit. Scores blow it right here.

I'll never forget the day I "bumped" into Billy Graham in the lobby of the Sheraton Hotel in Washington, D.C., when I was just a young minister. I talked to him, and then he looked at me with his piercing blue eyes, held up his Bible, pointed to it and said emphatically, "Stay in the Book. Just stay in this Book!"

Yes, sir.

At the same time my calendar registers my next milestone, Irv Gordon has one too--his Volvo hits the 3-million-mile mark!

What does he say is his secret?

"I read the owner's manual, and I service the car just the way the book calls for it. I figured the people who wrote the book are the people who built the car, and they should know."

Now contrast this with a quote from a minister featured on the front page of our Tennessean newspaper on Sunday. While I commend him for his civil rights work over the decades, I take strong issue with his philosophy: "Gandhi read the Bible from cover to cover. He thought a lot of that was nonsense--a lot of us would agree with that. Anyone who peruses the Scriptures over time will agree there's a lot of it we don't agree with."

Sorry, Rev. I and millions across this nation reject that approach to God's Word, and we believe success comes when we are faithful to the Manufacturer's Handbook.

Having stated this foundational truth, here's the deal regarding my top 10 life lessons:

1. Enjoy Jesus. Eternal life, according to our Lord, focuses not on a place but a Person (John 17:3). Keep this relationship fresh by spending time daily with Him.

2. Pursue your God-ordained destiny. In spite of setbacks that are inevitable along the way, let nothing deter you from continuing your pursuit of God's unique plan for your life (Ps. 139:13-16). Turn your trials into triumphs, your stumbling blocks into stepping-stones, and your tests into testimonies. I may sound a little like Joel Osteen here, but it's truth!

In my earlier years, I led a ministry called People of Destiny where I repeatedly heralded, "Destiny is a matter of choice, not chance! Go for it!"

3. Keep cultivating friendships. I believe it was John Maxwell who said there are four categories of friends:

  • Just friends (social);
  • Rust friends (older ones--some keep and let some go);
  • Trust friends (confidants and counselors);
  • Must friends (circle of lifelong gifts from God).

Remember what George Washington said: "Associate with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation, for it is better to be alone than in bad company."

Click here to read more.

SOURCE: Charisma News
Larry Tomczak
COMMENTS
blog comments powered by Disqus

Synergize4
Pastors & Leadership Conference 2014

NewsOne Now with Roland Martin

Kings of Christian Comedy

Christian Convocation and Chapel Speakers